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article imageWhere Can A Pedophile Find Their Next Victim? Try An Online Social Networking Venue

Posted Jun 3, 2008 by  Nikki W (karateblossom) in Internet | 11 comments | 738 views
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Go to a website, set up an account and create a profile. That is all that is required of a child in order to set up a MySpace account and is all that was needed for Kenneth Thomsa to find the four teen girls who he lured into bed and videotaped.
In Cleveland, Ohio, Kenneth Thomsa was convicted last month on several counts of unlawful sex with a minor and pandering lewd materials. The man, who was in his early twenties at the time, used his MySpace account to meet the four young girls. He encouraged them to sneak out of their homes in the nighttime and come to his house, where they had sex.

On two separate occasions, he videotaped the sexual encounters.

Thomsa received two years in prison and 5 years probation. He also must register as a sex offender.

MySpace is just one of many social networking sites that give predators one more access tool when it comes to children.

In a newstory run by ABC News just over a year ago, they reported that there were nearly 750 registered sex offenders with MySpace profiles but in a follow up story nine months later, the popular website admitted they had more predators lurking around than they imagined and deleted their accounts; nearly 30,000 of them to be more precise.

The site – popular with teens but feared by parents – says it has deleted 29,000 members it found to be convicted sex offenders.

“We're pleased that we've successfully identified and removed registered sex offenders from our site and hope that other social networking sites follow our lead”

Sure, there are laws that affect those who are registered sex offenders who insist on utilizing the Internet social networking services for their entertainment, like the three New Jersey sex offenders who were banned from having computers but busted just a couple of weeks ago for having Facebook and MySpace accounts.

But those are the ones who have been caught and convicted of a crime, leaving the countless pedophiles and sexual predators out there to rummage through profiles. Who monitors the activity of the innocent teen user who ends up the prey of some sick-minded individual?

Parental monitoring is ever important in the setting up of a MySpace or Facebook account, but does it eliminate the targeted youth?

The answer to that question is No. Although a browse or search of profiles will not reveal anyone who is under the age of 18-years-old, as a member of MySpace, it isn't difficult to tap into a network of children based on geographical location or other profile items.

On one of the sites, there is a link called "safety tips" placed at the very bottom of the page. If a teen user gets past their excitement and actually clicks on this link, they are guided to another page that has several monotonous tabs for the user to click and read, one specifically labeled Teens. However, the teens that I know just might say in response to this section...BORING!

The site also prints the following safety information for teens, in one of many bulleted statements:

People aren't always who they say they are. Be careful about adding strangers to your friends list. It's fun to connect with new MySpace friends from all over the world, but avoid meeting people in person whom you do not fully know. If you must meet someone, do it in a public place and bring a friend or trusted adult.

Teens know everything about everyone within the first three minutes of meeting them. Their behaviours continue to escape the intellectual minds of mental health professionals across the country as they are the ongoing victims of targeted violence as a result of that teenage behaviour.

The Internet is a great place for predators to meet their victims, as numerous sting operations have proven this time and time again. They chat with their victims and then drive, sometimes hundreds of miles to meet the child only to stand face to face with an arresting officer. Even the more popular version, NBC's To Catch A Predator, has brought about the snagging of child sex predators, although some opposed to these programs feel sorry for the sexual predator, feeling the "horrible behaviour" of the police was entrapment. Nothing is said about how the life and well being of a child might have been saved.

The bottom line of it all is that the Internet provides a mask of anonymity from which these individuals can hide behind, pretending to be something they are not. They can use certain forums as an area to befriend groups of teens and from there, target specific teens or children. With the teenage mind still under construction, it isn't a wonder these young individuals are such easy targets.

All of these stories tie into sexual predators and pedophiles in general and the need to be diligent no matter whether you are a parent or grandparent. It is important to question, event the most trusted of individuals, just as a recent case in Austin, Texas showed the country, when just a few days ago, Billy Dan Carroll, a 53-year-old wealthy business owner and, get this, "court appointed children's advocate" was arrested and jailed for charges of aggravated sexual assault with a child.

The police found videos in his home of him having sex with children as young as 3-years-old and also two women who appeared to be drugged. An 8-year-old turned Carroll in after he sexually assaulted her. Police say that his victims may be in the double digits.

Carroll had the undying trust of countless families as an advocate, with the advocacy system representative stating "We got, as I said, glowing personal references from people who have known him for years and said things like 'he's the person I would want to take care of my children if something happened to me.' These are people who have known him for 30, 40 years,"

I wonder how she feels now?

On the computer, at the pulpit and taking care of our children in vulnerable situations, they are out there. Beware.
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  • avatar Posted Jun 3, 2008 by  Chris V. (cgull)
    #1
    Another good report Nikki. MySpace is making it easy for them to find young girls. I hope the parents monitor them and set it in private settings. I was in MySpace for a few months, couldn't stand it, I don't know what they find in there.
  • avatar Posted Jun 3, 2008 by  Nikki W (karateblossom)
    #2
    @ Chris V. (cgull)
    Another good report Nikki. MySpace is making it easy for them to find young girls. I hope the parents monitor them and set it in private settings. I was in MySpace for a few months, couldn't stand it, I don't know what they find in there.

    Parental monitoring is very important on the private settings and such.
    I had a 7 yo in class one day who had his own my space page - mom set him up. UN FILTERED. I was shocked but knowing the mom, i wasn't in total disbelief.

    Did you read the last story link? That dude was a court appointed advocate for children who are sexually abused or beaten! That made me very upset.
  • avatar Posted Jun 3, 2008 by  T.A.Torrence
    #3
    @ Nikki W (karateblossom)
    Parental monitoring is very important on the private settings and such.
    I had a 7 yo in class one day who had his own my space page - mom set him up. UN FILTERED. I was shocked but knowing the mom, i wasn't in total disbelief.

    Did you read the last story link? That dude was a court appointed advocate for children who are sexually abused or beaten! That made me very upset.
    I couldnt agree more. Parental monitoring is the most important step.

    Cleveland,,.it figures.
  • avatar Posted Jun 3, 2008 by  Chris V. (cgull)
    #4
    @ Nikki W (karateblossom)
    Parental monitoring is very important on the private settings and such.
    I had a 7 yo in class one day who had his own my space page - mom set him up. UN FILTERED. I was shocked but knowing the mom, i wasn't in total disbelief.

    Did you read the last story link? That dude was a court appointed advocate for children who are sexually abused or beaten! That made me very upset.


    @ Nikki W (karateblossom)
    Parental monitoring is very important on the private settings and such.
    I had a 7 yo in class one day who had his own my space page - mom set him up. UN FILTERED. I was shocked but knowing the mom, i wasn't in total disbelief.

    Did you read the last story link? That dude was a court appointed advocate for children who are sexually abused or beaten! That made me very upset.
    That is really sad all he got was two years in prison sentence.

    Thomsa received two years in prison and 5 years probation. He also must register as a sex offender.
    The courts should make them pay heavy fines and give it to these abused children.
  • ZMan Posted Jun 3, 2008 by  ZMan
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  • avatar Posted Jun 3, 2008 by  Nikki W (karateblossom)
    #6
    thanks z, im sure there are many articles out there citing studies and i agree children will find predators all around. as a teen date violence educator and advocate i continue to teach the most important aspect of internet usage: educating youth and parental monitoring.

    its not hype-its reality. they are everywhere, otherwise stories like the linked stories and countless others where these cretins are convicted for abuse against young ones.

    if the austin man preying on those innocent kids or the ohio guy didnt upset you, well, thats your right. for those who stand for the rights of children, a predator or pedophile regardless of his or her medium is a sick individual.
  • EL Posted Jun 4, 2008 by  EL
    #7
    Clearly, the sexual abuse of children is an atrocity and should not be tolerated to any extent. In my opinion there is a problem when we start to blame the technology involved instead of looking at the individuals. The University of New Hampshire/Nat'l Center of Missing and Exploited Children researchers who have done the most work in this area have found some really interesting facts. One of the most telling facts is that in the majority of cases, the predator does not lie about his/her age or intentions. I don't know the facts of the Cleveland cases, but it's likely that Thomsa did not deceive his victims about who he was and what he wanted to do. Also, often times the victims meet up with the predator multiple times, and even express feelings of love for them.

    We are not seeing 40 year old men lying about their identities and luring unsuspecting children into their basements. What we are actually seeing is minors who are already at risk - usually they engage in multiple risky behaviors online and in the real world - who feel depressed, unloved, or otherwise dissatisfied in their own lives and who find passion and acceptance online. As long as there are angsty and dejected adolescents in the world (i.e., forever) there will always be predators, and no amount of identity verification, user account screening, or restrictions on freedom are going to be able to stop them from getting to minors. The answer is to try to identify the minors who are most at risk and intervene before something bad happens.

    Sorry to rant, but I do think that stories like this one, while important, have a tendency to sensationalize the issue and only focus on one aspect of the problem.
  • avatar Posted Jun 4, 2008 by  Nikki W (karateblossom)
    #8
    So, EL, what you are saying is that it is OK then to molest and rape children as long as they do not "lie" and "deceive" the children (and Yes, 14 and 15 are KIDS - children, babies, little ones, without the mental abilities to make rational decisions, hence the reason they are under parental guardianship until they are at least 17 and cannot drink or do much until 18)?

    I find that a repulsive mindset.

    This is not the sensationism of ONE thing - it is bringing out that sexual predators use ALL forms. Of course you know nothing about the OHIO case, nor do I. Only the creep who lured the young girls and had sex with them knows what and why, which is why he is in PRISON and gets the fantastic label of SEX OFFENDER for the rest of his life.

    The other 3 who were registered Sex Off. set up social networking accounts and got busted - the new jersey case. They broke the law.

    The Austin guy - no computer involved. I also did a story on religious leaders, you should read it. It has nothing to do with computers either.

    Internet gives creeps a mask, as does anything that opens trust for these children. That is why I'm happy that we have the laws we do in Texas.

    Age of consent: 17

    At 16, if you have sex with anyone over 19, they are a sex offender - 3 year law.

    Anyone 13 and under having sex is illegal.

    Internet stings are a great way to catch these creeps and I'm all for them.

    Social Network sites SHOULD employ more rigid monitoring systems to keep the adults from discussing anything inappropriate with kids.

    Cyberbullying is another problem. It isn't new or exclusively an online issue but it is a problem.

    As far as New Hampshire, they aren't "debunking", they have accomplished a study. I do appreciate the additional blogging links, as blogs are always enjoyable reads.
    Here is another study by New Hampshire showing that internet predators are on the rise.

    And El, this is the place to vent your opinion and you did so most tastefully. :o)

    I'm not saying that creeps are lying about their age, I'm saying creeps need to stay off of children's websites and profiles.
  • avatar Posted Jun 4, 2008 by  Nikki W (karateblossom)
    #9
    @ ZMancomment removed

    Z, I apologize for not attending fully to your comment last night. Thank you for the links. The reviewer and the famed skepitical author are both very good writers but neither are experts on the subject at hand.

    With your informaiton as well as defensive nature on the subject, I will leave it for other readers to draw their own conclusions.

    The law and the courts are clear, although not firm enough when it comes to sexual predators and pedophiles.

    The study out of NH is one of many and as I linked above in a separate comment, NH doesn't side with the predators, it was simply showing that they aren't "lying about their ages". I'm not implying that they are lying - simply stating the fact that they exist and do use social networks as well as other face to face forums.

    As far as your comment about children being molested by their peers, that is an odd statement but I will not dismiss it as it holds a small bit of validity.

    The problem is that the vast majority of children under 17 (consenting age) are being molested, sexually assaulted or involved in illegal sex practices by people they know or have become acquainted with - not total strangers.

    A high % are pedophiles but there are many who are predators looking for young sex only, as in the ohio case where the guy used an online social network to find his VICTIMS.... and many others.

    Caffaro-Rouget, Baker and Duncan, Kendell-Tackett, Mannarino and Cohen, Prescott and Kendler, Whiffen and MacIntosh, Rind, studies studies and more studies by different experts - doctors, psychologists, and other experts in the field prove the damage that this contact has on children and adults who have been a "victim as a child".

    I thank you for including the one study that was reported by skeptical reporters who are known for their works. But again, the study was not about the lack of sexual preds on the internet.

    thanks again, Z. Oh, and nice to see you are NEW to the group - welcome.
  • Manfred Steiner Posted Jun 4, 2008 by  Manfred Steiner
    #10
    The best way to protect your children on the Internet, be it from predatory adults or behavior with other children, is the use of monitoring software.

    Monitoring software is not just good software to have; with the dangers of the internet today it is software you need to have if you have children using the computer. It’s funny that very few people will risk their computer by going on the internet without an anti virus program; but many waver on whether to protect their children by monitoring their actions on the internet. How can protecting your child be less important than protecting your computer?

    My wife and I installed a program called Spector Pro on our daughter’s computer and it has allowed us to monitor her internet activity discreetly and easily.

    I had heard of keyloggers before but I had no idea software like this could include so many features. The Spector Pro program records all the keystrokes, chats, emails and it even takes snap shots of the screen that I can play back like a VCR. It allows me to see everything that has been on the computer screen.

    We originally purchased the program because we were concerned about her use of MySpace and Facebook. One of the main reasons we chose Spector Pro was because it has separate recording features for these sites. I can see all the MySpace and Facebook information separately; including login information, profiles she is viewing and who is viewing her; it even lets me when she posts to her blog or posts pictures.

    This program has been a real life saver. It not only allowed us to correct some issues we were concerned with; but it now gives us the piece of mind that comes from knowing EXACTLY what she is doing online.

    I can’t recommend it highly enough; in fact my wife is a school teacher and recommends this program to many of her students’ parents. Click here for more information.
  • avatar Posted Jun 5, 2008 by  Nikki W (karateblossom)
    #11
    @ Manfred Steiner
    The best way to protect your children on the Internet, be it from predatory adults or behavior with other children, is the use of monitoring software.

    Monitoring software is not just good software to have; with the dangers of the internet today it is software you need to have if you have children using the computer. It’s funny that very few people will risk their computer by going on the internet without an anti virus program; but many waver on whether to protect their children by monitoring their actions on the internet. How can protecting your child be less important than protecting your computer?

    My wife and I installed a program called Spector Pro on our daughter’s computer and it has allowed us to monitor her internet activity discreetly and easily.

    I had heard of keyloggers before but I had no idea software like this could include so many features. The Spector Pro program records all the keystrokes, chats, emails and it even takes snap shots of the screen that I can play back like a VCR. It allows me to see everything that has been on the computer screen.

    We originally purchased the program because we were concerned about her use of MySpace and Facebook. One of the main reasons we chose Spector Pro was because it has separate recording features for these sites. I can see all the MySpace and Facebook information separately; including login information, profiles she is viewing and who is viewing her; it even lets me when she posts to her blog or posts pictures.

    This program has been a real life saver. It not only allowed us to correct some issues we were concerned with; but it now gives us the piece of mind that comes from knowing EXACTLY what she is doing online.

    I can’t recommend it highly enough; in fact my wife is a school teacher and recommends this program to many of her students’ parents. Click here for more information.

    Great recommendations and thank you! I don't disagree at all.

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