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Op-Ed: The Anonymous Advanatage
The cowardice of the newest form of bullying has come to the forefront of the media in recent weeks. Cyberbullying is the cowards way to brow beat any opposition using the anonymous advantage.
The mask is the single most powerful object known to mankind. It affords its user great powers and the greatest of them all is anonymity.
Your Identity is your most precious secret and while hiding under the mask of anonymity the only part of your identity available is the part you can clearly show on the Internet, your mind.
Cyberbullying is the form of antagonism du jour, and has been greatly employed by many on the Internet who have lost their connection with the humanity on the other end of the keyboard.
The current Internet culture is mostly being embraced by teens and young adults who have made cyberspace part of their identity. The cloak of anonymity has given teenage schoolyard bullies a whole new set of weapons to commit their savage acts of targeted disdain without the fear of repercussions. "The anonymity provided by new technology limits a victim from responding in a way that may ordinarily stop a peer's aggressive behavior or influence the probability of future acts, which provides an advantage to the perpetrator," the CDC's Corinne David-Ferdon and Marci Feldman Hertz wrote.
Megan Meier was one teen on the receiving end of cyber-harassment. The 13 year old was duped into believing that a former friend's mother was a 16 year old boy who had a crush on her. The already psychologically fragile girl was on anti-depressants. After building up her hopes, her former friend on the myspace screen name of her mother's design, ridiculed Megan along with a group of others. Some of the last words Megan saw on the monitor were, "the world would be better off without you." Her parents found her hanging from a support beam in her closet, a belt as a noose.
The laws two Missouri state cities have enacted were too late to save her, but not too late to come to the aide of the woman who orchestrated the hoax that lead to Megan's untimely death.
Suicide is not the only method being used to put an end to the agony teenagers face from cyber-bullies. The Journal for Adolescent Health and the CDC have found connection between cyberbullying and the physical outlash that has driven fear into the hearts of parents.
With a significant increase of children ages 10-17 reporting they are the victims of cyberbullying, a trend that has risen from 6%in 2000 to 9% in 2005, anti-social behavior has also risen. "Youth harassed online were significantly more likely to also report two or more detentions or suspensions, and skipping school in the previous year," Michele Ybarra and colleagues at Johns Hopkins University in Baltimore reported in another study in the journal.
"Especially concerning, youth who reported being targeted by Internet harassment were eight times more likely than all other youth to concurrently report carrying a weapon to school in the past 30 days," added Ybarra's team, who interviewed 1,500 10- to 15-year-olds. This information makes a stanza from "Teenagers" by My Chemical Romance make more sense.
"The boys and girls in the clique
The awful names that they stick
You're never gonna fit in much, kid
But if you're troubled and hurt
What you got under your shirt
Will make them pay for the things that they did."
Cyber Harassment is not only limited to the youth, after all most bullies learn their behavior from the home. Many adults engaged in activities on the Internet have been known to harass individuals ad nauseum. Adult cyber bullies get the same jollies as their youthful counterparts, power through anonymity. The major difference is in the purpose behind the actions driven by the lack of self esteem or self worth. These types want Internet attention. Most adult cyber bullies are attention whores with little to no dignity left. They are adults who find themselves without merit or respect in their natural environment and seek acceptance online.
Many a comedy parody has been made on adult bullies who troll around looking for fights or vindication for their inability to function in normal society. One of the best comedy sites is Flame Warriors. Here you will find a list of characters with illustrations that match the personalities of all types who routinely debate on the Internet.
For example: Blowhard feels the need to present his credentials before entering the fray - even if they are irrelevant to the discussion. For example, in a movie forum conflict he might attempt to settle the matter by saying, "As a Ph. D. candidate in particle physics I believe I can say with some authority that the 'Beavis and Butthead' movie represents the emergence of a new cultural paradigm." Huh? For Ego, the discussion forum is all about him, and he regards discussions that stray from that topic as trivial dalliances. Although tolerant of an occasional shift in focus, Ego grows increasingly restive when the forum's attention shifts away from his interests, and he will often provoke conflict to reestablish himself as the subject at hand. Ego is one the the fiercest of all the Warriors and will fight to the death when attacked. Although sometimes a male, Crybaby is usually a female, and often a close ally of Innocence Abused. When teased or attacked Crybaby will pitch a loud public temper tantrum, holding her breath and kicking her feet. If that defense fails she will run to Nanny for comfort. Despite the hilarity of these perceptions there are truth to them. The Flame War is found on almost any forum on the Internet and can be the source of endless fun for those witted enough to not take the opinions of a mask seriously. However, they can become quite serious in the work place.
The Internet is not only a playground but has become a source of income for those brave enough to enter its clutches. When the source of income is threatened by the flame wars it takes on a real world dilemma. Unlike solid work places, the cyber work place has little to no laws governing the behavior found within its midst. The Internet by virtue of what it is, is more often than not considered international territory. Libel, Slander, Stalking, Harassment of any kind, these are all found in the telecommute workplace. Proving who is behind attacks generated online seems to be the source of frustration justice is feeling when dealing in cyber crimes.
The advantage of anonymity has given a new dynamic to the darkness of the human soul that we see for display on the internet. Time can only tell if more laws will be passed regulating Internet behavior and to stem the tide of a new and harassing culture.
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Internet trolls. Yeah, we have those that visit out blog and we dispatch them forthwith.
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Blowhard feels the need to present his credentials before entering the fray - even if they are irrelevant to the discussion. For example, in a movie forum conflict he might attempt to settle the matter by saying, "As a Ph. D. candidate in particle physics I believe I can say with some authority that the 'Beavis and Butthead' movie represents the emergence of a new cultural paradigm." Huh?
How would this character relate to people who write Op-ED pieces for two-bit internet forums..?
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Much more than a few too many drinks, commenting under the "anonymous" moniker gives some otherwise meek people courage unimagineable.
It also often exposes their total ignorance of what they are commenting on.
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Good post, people don't seem to respect each other, if nobody agrees with their opinion then they are being called so many names. Those who call names will get their due here and after they leave.
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@ Jedediah Redman
How would this character relate to people who write Op-ED pieces for two-bit internet forums..?
Depends if they are writing an Op-Ed because they think they are the shit and everyone must hear thier opinion because it is it the only one worthy of notice, or if they are doing it because they want to interject thier opinion into a topic at hand.
It all comes down to intent. One can get into a heated debate without being a bully, but trolls who thrive on dissent are really what I am addressing int he adult internet bully.
Teens have it different, there is alot more pressure on them especially while thier minds are still fragile from hormones. What is worse is that there is a connection between anti-depressants which alot of teens are on, and suicide. It they are being cyber bullied while they are on these anti-dpressants and it happens to be the wrong kind for thier chemical make up they may act more harshly than they would have otherwise.
Honestly the culture of bullying has really taken a turn for the worse, kids can't expect repercussions for thier actions anymore. The feel gooders have enabled the bully by promoting that kids don't deal with them aggressively. It is part of us as humans to react when we are attacked and I think a good pop in the mouth may be just what some of these kids need now adays.
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@ Jedediah Redman
How would this character relate to people who write Op-ED pieces for two-bit internet forums..?
.. and yet here you are injecting your two-bits under a side handle.
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Timely and relevant Am.
As Lew has pointed out -- a couple of cocktails and a blunt can really amp up the venom.
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and here I thought a blunt was supposed to mellow you out! lol
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In some individuals -- not so much. 8 )
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@ Helena Handbasket
Timely and relevant Am.
As Lew has pointed out -- a couple of cocktails and a blunt can really amp up the venom.
@ Helena Handbasket
In some individuals -- not so much. 8 )
You've got that right, Helena!
Am, this is a very timely piece and you've done an excellent job bringing this subject to light yet again. It's something we all need to know about and understand.
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Great article with alot of good links and research. I had never heard of some of the sites you mentioned here, so it was a learning experience on my part.
I had to giggle when I read the "Blowhard" description......seems DJ has a number of those.
Actually the 3 you listed Blowhard, Ego and Crybaby all made immediate connections in my mind. LOL!
It is sad really, how forums like these seem to bring out the worst in some people.
The tongue is probably the most vicious weapon we as humans possess. Once unleashed and used against someone, it can wield blows that can kill. The Internet has allowed so many to use that weapon with no care or concern for it's effects on another person. The fact that we are all "anonymous" apparently takes away the compassionate side of alot of people, allowing them free reign in their minds to emotionally and psychologically destroy another "avatar"....heartless really.
Again, great piece Am, timely and well written.
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@ LewWaters
Much more than a few too many drinks, commenting under the "anonymous" moniker gives some otherwise meek people courage unimagineable.
It also often exposes their total ignorance of what they are commenting on.
Aw, give yourself a break, lew.
But if its as bad as you say, perhaps a visit to your AA will shore you up long enough to get home without having to face anybody until next meeting...
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@ Jedediah Redman
Aw, give yourself a break, lew.
But if its as bad as you say, perhaps a visit to your AA will shore you up long enough to get home without having to face anybody until next meeting...
I don't think Lew was saying he had a drinking problem Jed. I think you need to reread what he posted......he was drawing a correlation between the two, not identifying himself as an alcoholic.
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@ Pamela Jean (GotTheScoop)
Great article with alot of good links and research. I had never heard of some of the sites you mentioned here, so it was a learning experience on my part.
I had to giggle when I read the "Blowhard" description......seems DJ has a number of those.
Actually the 3 you listed Blowhard, Ego and Crybaby all made immediate connections in my mind. LOL!
It is sad really, how forums like these seem to bring out the worst in some people.
The tongue is probably the most vicious weapon we as humans possess. Once unleashed and used against someone, it can wield blows that can kill. The Internet has allowed so many to use that weapon with no care or concern for it's effects on another person. The fact that we are all "anonymous" apparently takes away the compassionate side of alot of people, allowing them free reign in their minds to emotionally and psychologically destroy another "avatar"....heartless really.
Again, great piece Am, timely and well written.
We have pretty much every kind on here, you should read the Flame Warrior wesbite it is hilarious.
Guess who crybaby is on here * smiles brightly*
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@ Samantha A. Torrence
We have pretty much every kind on here, you should read the Flame Warrior wesbite it is hilarious.
Guess who crybaby is on here * smiles brightly*
LOL! Yea, that is sort of what came to mind.... :-)
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Blowhard and Ego are in my opinon some of the most common warriors. I have come upon them in every single forum I have ever been on. Toxic Granny is one of my favorites though. lol
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I am reading through the list as we speak. The pictures are absolutely hilarious! I have identified a number of folks here on DJ - that is just the cutest site ever.
I am still trying to figure out which one I am though - I'll let you know when I find "me"! ROFL!!
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Honestly I couldn't find you... We might need to make up a new one.
When the group of gals was still around that were all devout christian you had a sort of cyber sisters thing going on though lol
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I think, for the most part, this would be me:
In a perpetual personal feud, Duelists generally don't menace anyone but each other, unless, of course, another Warrior foolishly gets between them. They may not even remember what started the fight, but they cordially loathe one another and seize every opportunity to go at each other. When the other Warriors eventually weary of their endless kvetching the Duelists will be shouted down or Nanny will ban them. Even after getting the heave-ho from one forum, however, it is not unusual for them to seeking each other in other forums to renew their fight.
I seem to love to do battle with an opponent I deem worthy, and will fight to the death.....though I often times find myself being strangely attracted to those I deem my most worthy.
Wierd huh?! ROFL!!
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@ Samantha A. Torrence
Honestly I couldn't find you... We might need to make up a new one.
When the group of gals was still around that were all devout christian you had a sort of cyber sisters thing going on though lol
Yea, I agree with that analysis......... :-)
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@ Pamela Jean (GotTheScoop)
I think, for the most part, this would be me:
I seem to love to do battle with an opponent I deem worthy, and will fight to the death.....though I often times find myself being strangely attracted to those I deem my most worthy.
Wierd huh?! ROFL!!
Freaky.... lmao
You probably sense the passion they have. Passion is attractive.
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Big Dog is a bully who doesn't hesitate to use his superior strength to intimidate other combatants. Big Dog may be smart, articulate or just plain mean, but in any case he is a remorseless fighter, brutally ripping into even the weakest of combatants. Once Big Dog securely fastens his powerful jaws on a hapless victim, Me-Too will join the attack. Me-Too is far too weak and insecure to engage in single combat, and must ally himself with Big Dog or a pack of other Warriors to bring down his quarry.
I can remember "back in the day" when Lensman and 666Divine played this role.....I had to duel with both of them. Hahahahaha! Those were some real dukers. Then Muse would show up, the comic relief, and interject something in an attempt to diffuse the situation.
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Godfather is surrounded by a cadre of loyal henchmen. Unlike Rebel Leader, Issues, Furious Typer and other noisy Warriors, Godfather only occasionally deigns to enter into discussions, but when he does everyone listens to him respectfully and his pronouncements have an air of finality. Though Godfather himself never engages in battle, it is commonly understood that his utterances should not be challenged, and when an unsuspecting Newbie or ambitious wannabe mounts a challenge to his authority Godfather’s henchmen viciously silence or drive away the attacker.
I think Wolfman is our Godfather..............wouldn't you agree?
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A Swarm hive is almost impossible to detect. When a hapless victim stumbles on a forum that houses a Swarm and disturbs it with an offending message, the Swarm will erupt and fly at their victim from all directions. Taken one at a time the irrelevant, often mindless individual attacks can be easily brushed aside, but because of the sheer volume of the assault even the strongest Warriors must eventually yield. WARNING: Only those who are highly skilled in Swarm management techniques should attempt to wade into a Swarm hive. but even with protective clothing opposing Warriors should expect to suffer a few stings.
This perfectly describes the "Gang" that recently joined. I will now, atleast, have the proper terminology for identification. ROFL!
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lol I think swarm and royals descirbes the current dichotomy and yes Wolfman is the God Father.
Picasso is toxic granny, sweet until you piss her off. muwahahahahahaha!
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@ Samantha A. Torrence
lol I think swarm and royals descirbes the current dichotomy and yes Wolfman is the God Father.
Picasso is toxic granny, sweet until you piss her off. muwahahahahahaha!
Yes, definitely Picasso is Toxic Granny. She commands alot of respect and gets it. I don't think anyone is crazy enough to go after her, as she has a big following around here that take on her opponents for her, leaving her hands clean and her linens unsoiled.......hahahahaha
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Excellent piece, I am still clicking links. You captured the essence of the problems so well and so clearly.
The Megan Meier situation also shows the dangers present on the web and I am so glad you put that in this article.
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ROFL killer post and love the apt descriptions ...just wait till Picasso hears she's a toxic granny tough ...rofl....and GTS you hit it one with the duelist role you used to have going on...rofl...love this one
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@ Pamela Jean (GotTheScoop)
I don't think Lew was saying he had a drinking problem Jed. I think you need to reread what he posted......he was drawing a correlation between the two, not identifying himself as an alcoholic.
Ad homs are all the left has left to do...zero facts equates to emotional attacks.
Typical.
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@ Mark L Harvey
Ad homs are all the left has left to do...zero facts equates to emotional attacks.
Typical.
Huh?
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@ Pamela Jean (GotTheScoop)
I don't think Lew was saying he had a drinking problem Jed. I think you need to reread what he posted......he was drawing a correlation between the two, not identifying himself as an alcoholic.
Ya think..?
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Maybe your humor is above my head or something, but between you, Snooper and Lew I am just totally lost. None of your posts, nor subsequent comments, are making alot of sense to me at this point. Sorry.
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Is Jedediah attempting to " Get it Straight" for Once??" and leave the Stuck on s..... State?
This is one heck of agood Post...
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Am, congrats on your award for this piece. Well deserved.
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@ Jedediah Redman
Aw, give yourself a break, lew.
But if its as bad as you say, perhaps a visit to your AA will shore you up long enough to get home without having to face anybody until next meeting...
Jedidiah, I don't drink and don't belong to AA. My comment was that a keyboard and the anonymity of sitting behind a monitor gives one more strength than those who have a few too many drinks. A false bravado, if you will.
Even you should be able to see that.
Amaranth, congrats on a well deserved award for this article. Very well written.
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Thanks Peeps! =)
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