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A Bosnian couple has filed for a divorce after discovering both having an online affair with each other under fake names. Both felt they found a soul mate at last until they met in person.
Sana Klaric, 27 and Adnan, 32 from Zenica, Bosnia, had marital troubles, so they were secretly chatting and having an affair online.
In an online chat forum, both husband and wife found each other unknowingly under assumed fake names (Sweetie and Prince of Joy) and both poured their hearts out about their marital problems.
With time both realized they were perfect for each other and wanted to meet finally in person. But when they met in person, it wasn’t a happy ending, each accusing the other as unfaithful and is now filing for divorce.
Sana told the newspaper:
I thought I had found the love of my life. The way this Prince of Joy spoke to me, the things he wrote, the tenderness in every expression was something I had never had in my marriage.”
Sana said when they were chatting she realized how alike their marriages were both in trouble. And one day they decided to meet in person and have a rose with them to identify themselves, but when she saw Adnan carrying that rose, she felt betrayed and angry.
Adnan said to the press:
To be honest I still find it hard to believe that the person, Sweetie, who wrote such wonderful things to me on the internet, is actually the same woman I married and who has not said a nice word to me for years."
Adnan realized after chatting that he finally met an ideal woman only to find it was the same person he was married to.
Just like the virtual world, they could have responded the same to each other in real life. They could have worked it out instead they have to start all over again. They better try a different forum and not meet again the next time.
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Wow, what a story. I guess they could explore parts of themselves online that they just cannot reach in their daily lives. Instead of divorcing, they should have noticed the power of their relationship.
If they could love each other online, I think they should have set aside the fact that they had tried to cheat and save their marriage through this new found attraction.
What a coincidence tho.
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Now that is a funny story.
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@ Nathalie C
Wow, what a story. I guess they could explore parts of themselves online that they just cannot reach in their daily lives. Instead of divorcing, they should have noticed the power of their relationship.
If they could love each other online, I think they should have set aside the fact that they had tried to cheat and save their marriage through this new found attraction.
What a coincidence tho. If only they could have communicated that feelings in personal life, they could have made it work. Now I think it is too late and they won't admit they wronged each other. They are equally guilty. -
@ Chris V. (cgull)
They are equally guilty.
I dont believe them to be guilty of anything. They were both unhappy with their marriage and longing for happiness. -
@ Nathalie C
I dont believe them to be guilty of anything. They were both unhappy with their marriage and longing for happiness. She was saying he was faithless, she also was faithless :) but you are right it is better to be in a happy relationship than hurt each other. -
To bad they could not have talked openly to one another like they did under false names. Maybe they should try and talk to one another and they might be able to save their marriage.
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@ Brandigal (Donna)
To bad they could not have talked openly to one another like they did under false names. Maybe they should try and talk to one another and they might be able to save their marriage. They can have counseling if it doesn't work then they can move on. -
Seems this couple fell in love with eachother twice, once in the real world and the other in virtual reality, therfore they may truly be soul mates and if that is the case a divorce will not alter that.
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@ 666divine
Seems this couple fell in love with eachother twice, once in the real world and the other in virtual reality, therfore they may truly be soul mates and if that is the case a divorce will not alter that.
I agree - I think that they should look at the "bigger picture" here and realize that they obviously love each other and be happy that they in fact were "cheating" with their own spouse. Besides, they hadn't been having sex or anything on line, just communicating openly. Hopefully they will realize that they do love each other and work things out. I think I would have been thrilled to realize that the other person was actually my own husband! It would have given me immense hope for our future! -
@ Pamela Jean (GotTheScoop)
I agree - I think that they should look at the "bigger picture" here and realize that they obviously love each other and be happy that they in fact were "cheating" with their own spouse. Besides, they hadn't been having sex or anything on line, just communicating openly. Hopefully they will realize that they do love each other and work things out. I think I would have been thrilled to realize that the other person was actually my own husband! It would have given me immense hope for our future!
Yeah, if that happened to me and with the objecton of my affections, I think that we would both just laugh at ourselves and probalby continue with our relationship and also cheat with eachother on line. And having sex with eachother on -line as well as in the bedroom might just add more to our relationship. It could be fun! -
it is certainly a strange world....
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This has got to be the funniest thing I've heard in a long time. It just goes to show that people will say anything under the veil of anonymity. Anyone who thinks they would "kiss and make up" under the same circumstances is nuts.
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Anyone who has ever felt the state of "being in love" knows that it's equivalent to being "temporarily insane.". There's nothing rational about it.
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@ Carolyn E. Price (gohomelaker)
This has got to be the funniest thing I've heard in a long time. It just goes to show that people will say anything under the veil of anonymity. Anyone who thinks they would "kiss and make up" under the same circumstances is nuts.
I don't know GHL - I think it depends on just how long a couple has known each other, how deep their love was at one time, and how much they really want to make things work.....I can honestly see myself laughing if I were married and my husband and I were arguing and then suddenly we both "busted" each other by showing up carrying roses. I think it was sort of Karma and that they should really take a long hard look at who they are and how wonderfully they get along when they put the past behind them and try to be caring a loving to their respective partner.
What is the point in accusing the other of "cheating" - neither is anymore guilty than the other, so it is a mute point. -
Wow - a bizarre love story that turned out so bad! And it is so sad that they do in fact love each other & are attracted to each other outside their own lousy marriage! It could work out if they'd just get some counseling & work through these problems. We all go thru bad times in our marriages, but you stick it out & work through it - unless abuse is involved or other "impossible" situations.
Good post, cgull.
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very good out look there 666divine, surprising, but good!
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funny all it takes is commuication!
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@ Nathalie C
I dont believe them to be guilty of anything. They were both unhappy with their marriage and longing for happiness. -
@ nick2100
very good out look there 666divine, surprising, but good!
Thanks. I surprise myself sometimes. -
"all they needed was communication"... "they could have saved their marriage"... "they should realize that they are perfect for each other"..."the fell in love twice"....Are you all naive??? I guarantee you that they were NOT their true selves online any more than they were while they were dating. It's funny how ideal someone is when not saddled with familiarity and the responsibilities of everyday life. This just goes to show that you never really KNOW a person just from chatting online and saying/hearing the right things.
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@ amanacer
"all they needed was communication"... "they could have saved their marriage"... "they should realize that they are perfect for each other"..."the fell in love twice"....Are you all naive??? I guarantee you that they were NOT their true selves online any more than they were while they were dating. It's funny how ideal someone is when not saddled with familiarity and the responsibilities of everyday life. This just goes to show that you never really KNOW a person just from chatting online and saying/hearing the right things.
Thanks Amanacer, welcome to DJ. I think they are better off from each other and get real next time and don't delude others. Add a Comment
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